Red Letter

As I was leaving the Red Letter offices in Oct. 2017, I had an unfortunate accident that left me physically (and every other -ally) broken and unable to sustain the work of Red Letter. I cannot thank our team, candidates and clients enough for the time we had together. I’m happy we were able to be a small part of your bigger life story. Your best days are ahead!


Risky

Enter at your own risk. Some of these posts are raw. Some are sad. Some aren’t. Some contain cussing. Some don’t. But, they’re all real. They contain some of the good, and not so good, thoughts that come and go through my mind on the daily. Please don’t think you need to rescue me or help me—even though I need a lot of help. I now understand what “pain and suffering” feels like and it sucks.


Circa 1996

In the late 90’s I spent a couple of years with a group of young people in Chicago. Fast-forward to today. I had the news on in the background and when I looked up, I saw his name on the screen and then his face. It was one of the young people from that group. He was responsible for devising and coordinating U.S. national security policy, with a particular emphasis on Iran’s nuclear and regional activities, the Israeli-Palestinian conflict, Syria, and security cooperation in the broader Middle East. When I looked him up, I read that he also served as special assistant to Condoleezza Rice and Colin Powell and at the U.S. embassy in Tel Aviv. He was a genius in high school with an affinity for Israel, so I’m not taking any credit for his career, but it was a fun surprise to see him on TV. That’s all.


Minimalism

It’s been a minute since I’ve posted on any of my social media channels. When the accident happened, I was unable to do anything without a lot of help, much less social media. Now, nearly two years later, I still need help, but I also want to rethink my relationship with social media before i jump back into it.

Cal Newport’s book Digital Minimalism sums it up pretty well, “Minimalism is the art of knowing how much is just enough. Digital minimalism applies this idea to our personal technology. It’s the key to living a focused life in an increasingly noisy world.”

My pastor says, “The more you focus on something, the bigger it gets in your eyes.” With the time I have left on this planet, I want to laser-focus on my big family, significant relationships, and reaching the world with good news. Oh, and maybe write a book.  


My People

Ann, my wife since 1975. Brad and his wife Jamaica and two children, Miró and Jude. Mark and his wife Jamie and four children, Ava, Landon, Lily, and Ella. Craig and his wife Kara. Luke and his wife Sarah. Joy and her husband Angel León and their daughter Inez. Their new baby Santiago is coming real soon. Paul. Should I mention his long-time girlfriend, Grecia? Everyone except Brad and Jamaica and family have moved to SEA from ATL, NYC, CLT and LAX . It’s our hope that someday soon the entire family will be in the PNW.


WTF GOD

I knew the second I went to put my foot on the lobby floor that something was painfully wrong. I had missed a couple of stairs and I was airborne Two thoughts raced through my mind, your life will be changed forever and you will not make it out of this alive. The next thing I heard was my leg exploding as I slammed into the concrete floor. After twenty-one (and counting) traumatic months, I’m still recovering and the rest of the story is still being written. I’ve titled a potential book WTFGOD and I hope it gets written.


The Man...

“It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat.” - The Man in the Arena by Teddy Roosevelt


One Night

I could kick myself for not journaling or documenting the last 21+ months. I thought about it, a lot, with the same conclusion—screw it. Even when balloon Bob called and encouraged me to write a book—screw it—was the outcome. For a long time after the accident, I didn’t have a shit to give. I cried for hours every day and night for months. I had none, zero, nil, zippo hope. One ominous, gloomy night, in the middle of those first five months, being painfully bound to my bed—100% non-weight bearing in my right leg—I thought suicide was my only way out. In utter hopelessness and despair, I sent a text to a handful of guys that I believed would pray for me. It was the middle of the night. All of them responded, but one called. Sometimes talking is better than texts—it for sure was in my situation. Stay tuned.